For the couple that runs it is essential to have good communication. Express feelings, positive or negative, we will solve problems better and strengthen the foundations of the relationship. * The speech should not be a weapon to harm another or recrimination, even during the most contentious, dialogue must be a way to reach an agreement, remove the roughness and foster trust.
* If communication is not good it would be nice to know why. For this, instead of blaming each other, we should first be honest with ourselves and put ourselves in the place of another. Thus, we may discover aspects of our personality that we did not know.
* You must be very careful with expressions that we use. This is not the same as saying: "I wish you were more cuddly with me," as saying: "You're not cuddle with me." In the second case we issue a negative ruling may impede communication.
* Where it is impossible to establish communication, it may be useful to use couples therapy.
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