Throughout life together there may be unimportant and crises that pass all alone. Sometimes, however, there may be a more serious crisis that can make us doubt the relationship and even consider the end of it. Firstly we must not forget that during the crisis feelings are exacerbated and can lead us to erroneous décissions. It would be desirable not to make serious resolutions during this period and let in a time of reflection.
In moments of crisis, communication is more important than ever. To have a fluid communication is important not to fall into the blame. It is not out of the dirty laundry, but to make a valoration objectively as possible the situation and try to find a solution.
When there are marital problems we must address them at the time. Make a detour, opt for silence or resignation will only qu'agrandir dimension of the conflict and perpetuate the crisis.
Finally a foolproof method to determine if the relationship came to an end is to ask a question: Is what I really hope this is the end? Even if the crisis is very serious, if both partners want to save the relationship against all odds, it is certain that the crisis would be resolved.
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