Only by being aware of what we did in our relationship that we can repair our past relationships and build healthy relationships in the future. It was not love but who missed our plans unreal what we wanted it to.
Generally, we plan in the other all our unresolved pain in the hope that this way we get rid of it. This phenomenon is known as "projection" and it works by "leaving out the" everything "in here" we will not be tolerated.
From that moment, each represents its own version of the same old story: the lack of love and need love. We try a lot of relationships and strategies and whenever they seem different but the same lie tojours love projecting themselves differently. Every relationship is an encounter with oneself in the mirror reflecting the other.
Whenever someone discovers that he likes what he sees he changes mirror-that is to say, partner-without understanding that every time he sees the same thing as an it has not changed what he puts in the mirror.
Each and every new person he meets-new relationship is a reflection of oneself. It is unclear that any relationship is yet another opportunity to turn and return to consciousness. Why unconsciousness in relationships is the cause of suffering? Well, what would be surprising is that fantasy can offer something different. But the ego can lie with a lot of credibility and it does every situation so that the culprit is always the other involved. To the ego
relationships are difficult and being "loved" too, when in fact the only difficult thing is his own personal relationships. Is what one may call it love? A relationship is centered in the unconscious fear and fear is the absence of love. It focuses also differences in the other and establishes the connection to get the other what it lacks in himself. If he succeeds, he will love each other. If it does not, he will hate. We see today how easy it is to move from one extreme to another.
With ingenuous idea to complete, some get a couple and say that together they are complete. They look with envy to get the loot from each other and once obtained, or not found, he loses interest and abandons the other. This behavior repeats itself once and another without end in a hopeless spiral.
The world seems inhabited by foreigners who have made something of hostile relations and a link without heart or warmth.
Perhaps these people unite their bodies under one roof, but their souls are thousands of light years. They live through their attention to the superficial. Their attitude attracts the circumstances that confirm what they say, namely that they are beings alone, and always will be and that their salvation would be to find someone "special". When the ego hears these arguments he altered and said he was not responsible for the conduct of another. And, efft, it is not but it strives to be. And it is for bringing the other in his life.
Because things do not happen by chance in a world of responsibility and if someone in your life there must be a reason. Someone has brought.
So maybe it should be posser the right questions: What strength can have a relationship where to go from love to hate it but a step? What he did not do for it has changed so much? That you asked him he did not? Whether you looking for that you do not find it? What can you receive that you have not given before?
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