When two people meet and consider themselves "non-needy" in themselves, no one pretends gaining control of what he believes himself to be lacking. They build relationships of love, not fear, as is the case, unfortunately, many couples these days and even perhaps forever. Now the question: how to find a complete being in itself and not needy? Of course in being yourself.
Be yourself the change you want in the world, said someone. You can look the company but not a relationship. We can not seek what can only attract. The difference between the two concepts is enormous. The affirmation of what we can not seek a relationship is not well received by the ego who wants to believe in its artifice, strategy, luck and merit and any other options where he assumed control.
Nothing is seeking the right person with qualities like this or like that. Instead, be yourself the right person, trying to possess these qualities. And since the equal attract, it will soon reach someone with these same qualities and who recognized in yours. Relations following the attraction of equals, not opposites.
Many people do not understand why their lives always arrive in the same stereotype of person. Every faith their partners seem to be copies of a single boss. It seems there is nothing else in the world for them. And indeed there will not stop until they make and transmit their own shortcomings.
person who is sane would like to transfer his grief in a loving relationship. Pay its own pain in the other is a selfish and the antithesis of unconditional love. Through the conscious relationship we heal the pain of the past. It's the gift that provides a conscious relationship. You never could heal your wounds if you did not agree to provide for the sole reason able to get this miracle of love!
Only through love you can get rid of all weapons that you used against you and your relationships in the past. Everything you give to the vision of love ceases to be a source of pain forever.
Relationships aware you release the past and show you a new way to relationner is possible, they offer you the love comes free of pain and regret. When you contemplate your partner as a being completely Innocent of all the fears you had put on him, your couple is finally blessed. The relationship is inspired by love because love is entered into each separate.
The relationship is healed that which was sick before but through self correction it is healthy. This is not the result of luck, providence, fate or karma or have found the right person. The right person comes when self is adequate. It's as simple as that. There is nothing to look outside but inside it is correct.
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